Hooping Through Life

 If you’re anything like me your mind is a virtual hooping vortex sometimes, constantly spinning all things into a hooping metaphor, example, or way of being. I can be in the most mundane setting and find a way to turn my thoughts about the situation into a hooping scenario. Do you find driving boring or a space full of endless frustration? My alone time in the car is inevitably spent becoming fully immersed in the music playing through my iPod and imagining myself hooping to the rhythms. I literally feel my adrenal rush as the music changes, knowing how I would fly my arms and hands during that moment in the song, feeling my legs want to bend and groove with each beat, all the while fully engaged with my ever spinning dance partner. And then whoosh, the song ends. Where there once was just a deep love of music, now is an enhanced, deeper fuller appreciation of movement, of dance, even if it is sometimes just in my mind. Are you hooping your way through life as well? One friend says she does the same thing. Another thinks I've fallen off the proverbial "hoop" rocker. Just wait until I tell you more.

Now my hoop roots are grounded deeply in the HoopPath, a teaching model created by Jonathan Baxter using mythological methodology to teach skills such as Touch or Samurai style hooping. While Baxter's myths stay close to my heart, the method of hooping comes out in, well, odd ways at times. For example, I’m out shopping - a task I abhor. Sometimes I imagine myself as a Warrior Hooper in the store, fiercely battling my way through the isles, dodging carts, hopping with magnificence across cans or clothes that have fallen in my path, my hoop always my partner in an epic war to get out quickly, with thrift, all the while maintaining quality. Despite the looks from other customers, it gets me through and I really think I am a better hooper for it.

Still don't believe me? Last summer while I trained for my second triathlon, hooping was still on my brain even as I moved through each sequence of events. While running I often found my arms inadvertently practicing breaks, paddles and reverses with an imaginary hoop. I'm sure I looked more like a dancer than a biker during my rides, and as a life long swimmer, the refuge in the water also became a place to find circles in each movement that I made.

In my every day life (aka, the most important part) I am a single mother of two energetic, astounding boys. Their creativity and thirst for life inspires me. At our last dwelling we had regular "dance parties" in the evenings, usually including hoops. The dancing was always a source of never ending laughter as we would attempt to see which of us could be the absolute silliest, causing belly flops and chortling from the others. Hooping was a lesson in patience, humor, fine and gross motor skills, and ultimately fun.

While we are now in a new setting, the antics continue, the form has just varied. My love for hooping and dance influences how I move around the house and interact with it and with them. Yesterday my youngest son, still in preschool, began telling a story in a whacky voice and my body moved wildly to his intonation. In my mind, I was flying my hands and dipping my legs as if in my hoop. To them I just was being their crazy mom. To all of us, it was hysterical fun. Whether we all know it or not my hooping bonds us in so many ways.

Yet it is even more deep-seated than simple musings in the car, wild dashings through a store or the beloved time with my children. What hooping has taught me, and what I still have to learn in its spinning lull, relate to most of my core beliefs about life. The hoop itself provides a natural physical boundary. It represents safety in the world. When I hoop, my thoughts, my dance, create a sacred space for me within that boundary. Represented in the hoop is wholeness, unity, a place to step in and begin to look for peace, internal and external. In my conversations with those not in the flow know I find myself holding back sometimes in conversation, from commenting in ways like, "Yes, the presidential election is just like hooping..." I know they will not always understand while my clothing choices alone usually let people know that I am a bit different from the mainstream. They know this without my going off on a philosophical tangent on the sacredness of circles.

For me hooping is engrained in almost every aspect of my life. Even when I am not in an active practice, hooping is actively in my life. Since my journey in the spin my hooping passion has helped me think outside the box, making every day life more interesting, making learning easier and making my teaching more efficient. It may not be normal for the rest of the world, but I wouldn't have it any other way.

Gabrielle Roth: A Hoop Dance Tribute

 Time after time we read incredible stories, hear personal anecdotes, and have possibly even experienced our own healing and transformation inside the magic circle that is our hoop. Let's be honest though, dear hoopers. We haven't entirely discovered something new. When it comes to the healing power of movement and dance we've actually discovered something very, very old. Last week the world lost Gabrielle Roth, one of the great leaders in meditative dance and healing through movement. Following a battle with lung cancer, the world lost the founder of the 5Rhythms dance movement, an amazing spirit, an incredible pioneer that not only touched my life personally, but whose beliefs, ideas and practices have parallelled the recoveries and discoveries in our hooping lives long before the modern hooping movement began. Who was Gabrielle Roth? What are the 5Rhythms and how can they play a role in our hoop dance healing? What were some of the contributions she made to the world that I will continue to think about for years to come? Let me tell you what I know.

In the 1960's, Roth created a way of finding consciousness through dance. According to her, "Physical movement is key to unlocking the spirit." Perhaps this is one of the reasons many hoopers find such a deep connection to Roth and her philosophies. As hoopers we often talk about "hoop bliss", freedom through our movement, getting lost inside of our hoops, and other occurrences within our dance that are often seen as spiritual, meditative and/or healing. Roth found these experiences years before our still relatively new wave of hoop dance had manifested. And more than that, Roth invited us to look even further back, that we needed to defer to our feet and move back to our roots. In the mind of Roth, these roots are made of light that connect us to 75,000 years of ecstatic dance tradition, to all who have danced to transport themselves out of their heads and into the wilderness of their own psyches, to experience in poetic patterns the shape and wonder of their souls. Though she was the founder of Ecstatic Dance and of the 5Rhythms dance movement, Roth generally spoke of dance less specifically when speaking of the power it holds.
 5Rhythms is a movement meditation practice Roth devised that she drew from indigenous and world traditions using tenets of shamanistic, ecstatic, mystical and eastern philosophy. The practice also draws from Gestalt therapy, the human potential movement and transpersonal psychology as well. Fundamental to the practice is the idea that everything is energy, and that energy moves in waves, patterns and rhythms. Roth described it as a soul journey, saying that by moving the body, releasing the heart, and freeing the mind, one can connect to the essence of the soul, the source of inspiration in which an individual has unlimited possibility and potential.

5Rhythms allows the participant to become deeply engaged in their own path, to find their own way in movement. And while teachers of 5Rhythms participate in a long training process, well over 300 hours, in order to teach others to find their own flow through the Rhythms - Flowing, Staccato, Chaos, Lyrical and Stillness - one can not help but think of hooping teachers and community members who consistently reiterate the idea that each dancer has their own flow and expression within the hoop. So many of Roth's ideas translate fluently into the world of hoop dance. Hoopers lucky enough to have experience in 5Rhythms or ecstatic dance will also tell you that it opened up their hooping, often in the most glorious ways.

Gabrielle Roth once said, "Dance is the fastest, most direct route to the truth -- not some big truth that belongs to everybody, but the get down and personal kind, the what's-happening-in-me-right-now kind of truth. We dance to reclaim our brilliant ability to disappear in something bigger, something safe, a space without a critic or a judge or an analyst." Wow, did you hear that? I mean really, say it out loud to yourself several times. Her words and philosophy on the power of dance have influenced me deeply. Understanding that my own experience in the hoop is validated by an elder with profound knowledge and understanding of movement, healing and meditation has helped create a safe space for me to explore my own truth within my spin.

The loss of Gabrielle Roth is profound. Roth worked at the Kripalu Center for Yoga & Health and at the Omega Institute for Holistic Studies. She also founded an experimental theatre company in New York, wrote three books, created over twenty albums of trance dance music with her band The Mirrors (on iTunes), and directed or has been the subject of ten videos.  I know we all are incredibly grateful for all that she brought to the world, to dance, to movement meditation, to healing through movement and ultimately to helping us better understand the healing power of the hoop in our own lives. Rest in Peace Gabrielle and thank you for having been here.
           
 Composer and musician Nicholas Caputo plays piano while Erin Sparrow hoops in this beautiful tribute to Gabrielle Roth.

Weaving the Hooping Community's Mutual Tapestry and Harnessing its Power

Last week a hooping friend on FaceBook contacted me out of the blue and gifted me a piece of her handcrafted jewelry. She explained this great kindness in a message, “So I decided to GIVE to (you) my hoop community (and being a teacher is Hard work).....funny how that changes it all up and makes the energy MOVE! Enjoy. I am wishing you happiness and hope to see you sometime in 3D.” Her act of selflessly giving left me contemplating the numerous times I have been assisted by my local tribe or the greater hooping community and the many stories over the years of hoopers helping our own. I began wondering how hooping has individually affected us to create a community where support exists between people whom have often never even met and may even live thousands of miles apart? 

Perhaps you are asking yourself, "What are these great acts of kindness of which you speak?"  Well, they are certainly countless and widespread. Throughout my ten years inside the hoop I have witnessed people donating money to other hoopers to help pay doctor bills, to send someone to the dentist, to cover utility and home repairs, really the list is endless. I have seen a hooper's family lose their house in a fire and a community stand up and help them through it. I've watched people lose loved ones and receive support that is unimaginable. We have not only helped hooping teachers, entrepreneurs, performers and many others see their dreams become reality as they began making a hoop career, we have also seen the gifting of a hoop, teaching someone a new skill, reaching out to a hooper who may be shy or just needs a boost of morale, all for fun and for free. All of these acts are important for a community that cares about one another on more than just a surface level.

Here’s the thing about hooping, for many of us when we first pick up a hoop we don’t really know what we’ve gotten ourselves into.  Sure our friend tells us it’s better than ice cream on a hot day, but we're thinking, "Hello, this is just a piece of plastic! How transformational can it be?" Then we find ourselves wanting to do it more and more and more. We notice that we are becoming more balanced in our lives, which leads us to feel empowered and strong. We start making sure that the clothes we buy are hoopable.  We spin our way to finding friends locally, regionally and beyond who share our bliss and can relate to what we are experiencing.  Often these people become our “tribe”, our community our support system. The inner change that we feel and have cultivated has a greater energy and power to manifest itself into larger local and even global change.

I live in reality, but the deepest part of me does not want to give up that child-like dream of utopia. We are a very diverse community, made up of people from all backgrounds from all over the world, and yet we all share is this one common love, a circle spinning around our bodies, our hearts, our lives. How strange that this draws us all into a communal bond.  I am friends virtually and physically with people across the world that I would have never encountered otherwise. We have real interactions and deep relationships have formed, simply because of the hoop. What if we harnessed the positivity created by the hoop, by hooping, by the hoop community far and wide. What if we collectively gathered all the support seen over the years, the friendships and communal energy we've all created and are creating. Couldn’t we change the world through our example? Or perhaps we already are. Perhaps in lifting the spirits of each of us inside our circles and sharing that with those we reach we reach in our communities and online, we continue to weave a fabric that is brighter, more colorful and stronger than the tapestry at hand. By sharing our hoop love and letting it shine we are truly making this world a better place.
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St. Francis of Assissi once said, "All the darkness in the world can not extinguish the light of a single candle. Soundtrack: "Song to the Siren" by This Mortal Coil (on iTunes).

Kaydi McMahan dances beautifully with her hoop to Adele's "Turning Tables" (available on iTunes). She lives in North Liberty, Indiana, USA.

Hoop Gathering Afterglow and the Melancholy Monday

RE-ENTRY CAN FEEL LIKE A SPIRAL IN SPACE

Just a couple of weeks ago, I found myself immersed in the HoopPath: Open Air stop in Detroit. I had anticipated it for months and was ready to dive in with my fellow hoopers when it was time for the workshops to begin. Over the course of the weekend, a bond began to form between the community in attendance. We were all sweaty and we ached together, ate some meals together, laughed and even cried together. Sunday night came and my cup was so full. There is nothing better for me than to truly immerse myself inside the hoop with people who understand and support not only my love for this magic circle, but support me being the very best me that I can be. Driving home I was basking in the afterglow of a weekend so well spent.

Then Monday hit, what we had been warned about. Yes, the “Melancholy Monday” syndrome had arrived – the less than magic time when the realities of real life return. Where are all my hooping pals? You recognize you are no longer in a hooper heaven setting and the non-hoopers you encounter on a daily basis have little idea how this experience could be so idyllic. They stare at you blankly as you share your joy which only seems to make it worse. As hoopers we are in the midst of gathering season and whether you’re coming home from Return to Roots or landing after Spark Fire and Flow Retreat or any of a myriad of festivals that have occurred lately. Maybe you are preparing for Circumference, Hoopcamp, Burning Man or another late summer or fall gathering. Or perhaps you aren’t going to a festival, but have or will be taking a weekend long intensive hoop workshop, like I just did. No matter what situation you find yourself in, you will most likely encounter your very own afterglow and your own Melancholy Monday of sorts. How can we best re-integrate into our daily lives after spinning up so much awesomeness? Here are six simple tips to help you land again smoothly upon your re-entry.

1. Allow time to process. One of the best ways to navigate your re-entry experience is to talk to others who also attended the event or may have insight because of past attendance at these type of gatherings. Share your experiences! Take time to journal, hoop, meditate, or just allow yourself some plain old solitude, taking the time you need to process. How do you know if it is helping? You will feel better after, not worse.

2. Pick up your hoop. You’ve surely learned a lot over the course of the event you’ve attended. Pick up that hoop and practice what you have learned. Don’t let all that knowledge go to waste. If you aren’t feeling it, then just love on your hoop and fall into a nice flow, allowing your hoop to embrace you as you bring those feelings of joy created back into your life at home.

3. Drink Plenty of Water. Hydration is key to life. Your body is most likely exhausted and a “hooper hangover” is unpleasant. Fluids will prevent this. One of the best ways to nurture yourself is to drink water, and a lot of it. Even if you stayed well-hydrated throughout the event, continue this hydration after you return home as your muscles and body continue the healing process. You’ve probably hooped more than you normally do and possibly ever have. Drink up. Your body will thank you for it.

4. Get Plenty of Rest. Go to bed earlier than usual if possible. Your body is your temple, allow it to be healthy, rested and restored. You have most likely put more physical and emotional (yes, even positive emotional) stress on it than it has seen in awhile. Give yourself an extra hour of sleep or a delicious nap whenever you can squeeze it in. Again, remember your body needs time to rebuild and restore itself, physically and emotionally.

5. Stay connected. Most of us are on Facebook and Hooping.org. Stay connected with the new friends you’ve just made. Take time to watch the videos from the weekend, look at the pictures that are being posted, post your own and bask in the memories created. It really helps to ease the transition back into your daily life.

6.Plan your next event. Knowing that you have something else up your sleeve, even if is months away, can help take the edge off. It doesn’t have to be a full blown hoop gathering either. Perhaps it is just a road trip to meet a new friend that you connected with at this past event, or a trip to a city an hour away to learn from that teacher you’ve been hearing about. If you are able to dream up something big or small it can really help give you some excitement for the future.

Leaving a festival or any hooping event can be a big transition and self care afterwards is warranted and necessary. These are just a few guidelines to help and we would love to hear your comments and ideas that have worked for you in your transitions from hoop gatherings back to everyday life. It remains thrilling for me each time I attend a hoop gathering, whether it be as an organizer, teacher, or attendee and no matter how many times I attend a hoop event, I always seem to walk away with my mind blown. We are so lucky to be a part of such an incredible community.

Hooping and Living in Both Currents

In our daily lives it's pretty easy to simply follow the routine we usually maintain, keeping the natural order of things. We go to the same Italian restaurant we already know is pretty good and often order the same thing. We drive home via the same route we usually do, but what if we decided to change directions? Have you ever wondered what the point is of learning to hoop in both directions, or as some say - both currents? Your flow with the hoop in a particular direction came naturally to you when you first picked up a hoop. Learning new tricks in that direction comes quicker, transitions are easier. But what if becoming proficient in your second or non-dominant current could make you a better hooper? Or even a better person for that matter?  What happens if we change the current?

Many of us often gripe about or just don't feel like hooping in both directions when we spin. Some think it is too hard, unimportant, or doesn't fit in with their flow. But like learning any new skill, hooping in the opposite direction, especially if you haven't trained that way from your hoop infancy, can be a challenge.  We often have to hoop faster to keep it spinning, pick it up a lot due to drops, and feel the frustration we did when we initially started our hoop journey all over again. So why would we want to do that again? Because, if our mindset is right, we can go into the learning process with the same joy, anticipation, and wonderment we experienced initially and we can fall in love with hooping all over again.

Hooping in both currents can in fact provide benefits to your body. In order to maintain a healthy balance physically, it is important to work both sides of your body. Take yoga, for example, a practice which, like hooping, incorporates mind, body and spirit. Yoga poses are practiced on both sides of the body to maintain balance and equilibrium within the person as a whole. As Yoga Journal explains, “Usually a student is stiffer on one side than another, and staying for an equal length of time on both sides does not balance the student. Instruct the student to stay a couple of extra breaths on the side on which they are stiffer and their body will slowly move back into balance. Though we may be comfortable in imbalance (which we often perceive as balance), we cannot grow in such a state.” Likewise threads from Hooping.org have addressed both personal and professional experiences with the benefits of current changes while hooping. As one Structural Integration Practitioner put it, “I would highly encourage you to spin both directions if you care at all about your body alignment. I have seen hoopers that only spin one way with back and hip problems originating from a twist in their spine.”

So maybe your convinced, perhaps begrudgingly, that it is time to work that second current. But how can it help your life? Well, let me tell you a story. It's several years ago on a Monday evening and a group of us are circled up in our hoops signifying that our class is about to begin. The circle is open for anyone to share something pertinent that may have happened throughout the week. A regular student, particularly known for his wit and humor, begins to speak and I prepare myself for a funny anecdote. This is what I heard, "This has been a difficult week, and this morning I woke up and was in a horrible mood. After thinking about it for awhile I said to myself, 'Ya know what, I am going to change the current!' And I did and things have really shifted for me today."  Up until that point, changing the current was something I only thought about inside the hoop, never in such a broader and profound way. Never really thinking about changing our "current", our present.

Changing the current in our daily lives amounts to looking at things from a new perspective.  I liken it to placing a stone in a fast moving river.  It diverges the water into two different paths, each moving towards the same place. One path may be full of muck or rockier than the other, while the other perhaps flows clearly with very few hinderances. One stick floats down the clear side, making it to the end point quickly, but didn't see or experience as much. Another stick in balance floats down this river, crossing over from one side to another numerous times before reaching the end point. Another stick finds itself stuck on the rocks or mud, having difficulty moving down the current.

We are not unlike a floating stick when choosing what current we will be in our daily lives, or our hooping life for that matter. When we are in the rougher water we may need to stay there awhile to learn the lessons needed, but at some point we can get stuck if we do not intentionally change the current and move to the other side. Likewise, if we always take the smooth ride down the river, do we really learn the lessons life has to offer? Moving between the currents offers a chance for both lessons and ease in our journeys.

In life, as in hooping, changing the current provides us with the balance that is essential for a healthier life. Current changes, both in life and in hooping, are not easy and do not come without loads of practice, but the benefits are immeasurable. I challenge you to pick up your hoop and spin in your non-dominant current for a song, or a hoop practice, or even just a few minutes each day. Build up a practice in your second current until you no can no long delineate between the two. In your daily life, break out of your comfort zone and spend some time listening rather than talking (or vice versa). Smile at the homeless person you pass by everyday and acknowledge they are there. Cross that proverbial river on a day that you are feeling stuck on the rough side and declare, "I am going to change the current!" Moving down the river of life, with time spent in each directional flow whether in your hoop or in your life, will help maintain a sense of balance, aiding you in reaching that place where the two currents converge.

Hooping as a Tool for Meditation

Why do you hoop? For fun, fitness or as a way to release your mind from everyday worries that hinder you from staying in the present moment? There is no right answer to this question. Over the years I have found that at different times I have hooped for all of these reasons. In fact, sometimes all of them simultaneously. What keeps me coming back into the hoop, though, is the peace I encounter with each spin.  For me it becomes a type of movement meditation unlike any I have experienced before. I become lost in cradle of the hoop’s touch as it rolls around my body. My mind sinks into a place where there are no thoughts but the present moment. I am in a state of mindfulness throughout the hoop session, and feel refreshed and calm when I am done. Sure I have frustrating times within the hoop, but when my goal is meditation, the hoop works wonders as a tool for this end. So how do you find this tranquility in your hoop practice? Here are some tips:

1. Find a quiet, serene place to hoop. Location can be everything when attempting use hooping as a form of meditation. Rather than hooping in crowded, loud venue, look for a softer place perhaps in a more natural setting. For many of us, nature allows us to begin to relax the moment we are fixed upon it. If this is not your inclination or possible then find the place that most calls to you as a comfortable environment.

2. Breathe. Allow yourself the opportunity to breathe deeply and with intention. Hear your breath and take note of it. Breathe from your belly rather than just from your chest. If needed, place your hand on your stomach to feel the inhalation and exhalation of each breath as it enters and leaves your body. Throughout your hoop session, take time to notice how you are breathing and if there is a mindfulness to it.

3.Begin your hoop practice with a slow, deliberate warm-up. Perhaps start with moving without your hoops, stretching, or slow movement within your hoop. Be aware of your body and how it is responding. Does it feel tight, sore or limited in any capacity? Use this time to scope out your environment. Are you able to move freely? Center yourself in your body and take as long as you need to find that place that feels comfortable to begin spinning in your hoop.

4. Use intention when making your playlist or hoop in silence. (Turning the Music Off) Whatever you choose, music or focusing on the sounds surrounding you, bring intention into it. If using music, I recommend finding a playlist that matches the mental space you hope to obtain in your hoop practice. During your warm-up start with something slow that matches the pace needed. Build upon that with songs that will motivate you to stay in the present moment, and leaving the daily worries behind. If a song doesn’t resonate with you at a particular moment don’t be afraid to skip over it and move on to the next one.

5. Don’t be afraid to drill. Often times we think that a hooping meditation session is not a good time to work on drilling a certain skill. On the contrary, this can be one of the best times to work on drills, as long as you practice patience with yourself and allow yourself to be present. Constant drilling on one skill can become a meditative movement in itself. Working on angles for example, sure you’re breaking a sweat and it’s hard, but your mind is present to what is happening and the repetition often creates a space for us to let go and stay mindful of the task at hand. The key is patience with yourself and not allowing frustration to enter into the picture and stay with you. Staying frustrated takes us out of the present and keeps us in a different state. Instead try acknowledging the feeling of frustration and letting it go.

6. Just dance. Sometimes all that is needed in a hoop practice is to dance, allowing the hoop to fully engage becoming our partner in the spin. Have you had those moments where you are so lost in the rhythm that you aren’t sure if you are controlling the hoop or the hoop is controlling you? You are one in the flow and it feels perfect. These are the moments when the “hoop bliss” we so often hear about arrives. It often surprises us when we are just dancing with our hoop. Not concerned what anyone else thinks, not concerned about learning a new trick, but just living in the moment and dancing for ourselves. This is often when we can truly find ourselves in a state of movement meditation within the hoop. Present to only the here and now and full of joy.

One of my students once told me that “When I’m hooping I can’t have a to do list going on in my head.” This has stuck with me for years and I use it in classes periodically. She expresses so clearly what many people feel. My hoop is a place for me to clear my head and go for refuge. With so many people telling their stories of healing within the hoop, I can’t imagine that I am alone with these thoughts and feelings. I am curious about yours. I invite you to take this time to share your experience of presence or presents offered through hooping. I can’t wait to hear!

Master of the Hoop?

Recently, I introduced myself to a talented, young hooper at a gathering of spinners, and she sweetly replied, “I know who you are.  You’re a Master.”  I felt my chest tighten. I blushed and awkwardly responded, “Well, I don’t know about that…”  You see, I struggle with the new term “Master Hooper” that has popped up in the last few years. My aim in looking at this isn’t about taking any dedication, hard work or skill set away from anyone, but instead to look at how language can be confusing, misleading, and even perhaps limit our growth. I don’t know where the term Master Hooper originated in our community, nor do I think it is all that important, but what is important is that the term lacks clear definition and boundaries. How does one become a Master Hooper? Are there guidelines, tests, rules to be one? Do you have to be able to do every “trick” or “move” possible? Are there varying levels of Masterhood?

In some other sports and arts there are specific guidelines set up in order for you to achieve the next level, whether it be done with points, scores, belts, degrees…  Martial arts, for example, has clear directions for what a person needs to do to earn each belt within the particular modality one is learning. Hooping, however, has no guidelines as such – and I for one am ecstatic about that, being able to continue pushing forward without worrying about what step on the ladder I am or “should” be on.

Now to be fair most dictionaries out there will list one of the definitions of the word “master” as, in essence, an accomplished or great artist or performer and I agree that the hoop community has multitudes of very talented spinners. But then what does it mean to be an accomplished or great hoop artist or performer? Who decides? Can anyone just start calling themselves a Master Hooper? And are people doing this?

One of the reasons this term seems so confusing and potentially misleading to me is because as a community, we hoopers are so very young on our journey as artists. The community has come so far in a relatively short amount of time, but in another ten years how much further will hooping be? My heart beats with excitement at the thought. Of course, there have been a number of pioneers who have paved the way with innovations and creative movement, opening up the hooping world to contemporary methods for manipulating the circle. How much further will these and other hoopers push the boundaries of what already exists? And what about those that have opened doors for us, but are no longer in the spin? Are their contributions less valuable because they left the hooping world? Can they not be considered a Master?

If we look at Master Painters, for example, it is possible to achieve the title within one’s lifetime, although many gain it after death, but it comes from a complex process of fully evaluating a long period of his or her work and the history of the time period. Since hooping, as it exists today, is still a relatively new art form, I have to wonder if it isn’t too early to assign the term Master to anyone, even if they have been in the circle for over a decade. For many of the early years of hooping we didn’t have videos or YouTube to actively watch each other’s work online, and while Burning Man and other festivals were around to allow us to hoop with one another, the first official hoop gathering didn’t happen in the United States until the first HoopPath Retreat in 2005. Our oldest gathering isn’t even six-years-old yet. The others are even younger. It is so soon to be using such a strong term for such a young art.

Personally, while I have a lot of unanswered questions about the term Master Hooper, I also am aware that no matter how developed my hooping becomes, I don’t want to master the hoop. I want to see the hoop, forever, as my dance partner. My partner in creativity, movement and meditation – not as merely an object to be manipulated and controlled. If I were to ever master the hoop, as such, I wonder if then my hoop journey would be over. That thought saddens me beyond belief. Instead, I see this venture as one of partnership, not only with my hoop, but with my fellow hoopers that I encounter. What can I teach? What can I learn along the way? Not only about hooping, but about myself, others and community? I always want to be learning because I don’t believe it is about reaching an apex, but about walking the long, scenic trail and soaking in each moment as it comes.

Getting Our Kids in The Hoop

With Michelle Obama and the Center for Disease Control on a mission to wipe out childhood obesity, it is no surprise that hula hooping has come into the limelight as one way to maintain health in kids. Childhood obesity has, after all, more than tripled in the past 30 years. In a population-based sample of 5- to 17-year-olds, 70% of youth struggling with obesity today already have at least one risk factor for cardiovascular disease. Something obviously has to be done. Whether or not kids want to exercise, however, most want to play. Hula hooping is a great way for kids to spin up some exercise without really knowing it. And while that may not be a news flash exactly, it has seemed to me, as a mother, that my 4-and 6-year olds have been gaining a plethora of other benefits and life skills from picking up the hoop as well. I knew how much the hoop had personally shaped and improved my life as an adult, but I was curious to know just how good is hooping for our kids, and what are all the benefits for them? So I decided to talk with several hoop professionals who are teaching hooping to children to find out. You might be surprised to learn that hooping helps children develop far more than just good exercise habits, especially when practiced with some regularity.

Kelly Breaux of Hoop It Up Worldwide has been hooping with children for close to nine years. What benefits does Kelly see as she works with these kids? She told Hooping.org, “It definitely improves self esteem in the kids because there is always a skill that a child can master. Also, when we go back to the same schools every year, the kids who are hooping are in better shape and have higher self esteem than those who didn’t keep up with it.” Kelly added, “At our company we call hooping a phenomenon because we have an obesity crisis with kids in our country and it is so easy for them to get hooping and have fun. They learn technique and core cardio. This gets kids to work out because they love it! Often to get boys and girls to exercise for an hour is unheard of.”

At Turners Youth Circus in Louisville, Kentucky, Rebecca Hellemansteaches and choreographs hoop dancing routines for the children involved. Rebecca, also the mother of young hooper, Sierra Hellemans, has witnessed the prodigious effects hooping has on children at both a personal and a professional level. She has also noticed a significant increase in self confidence from the time she first starts hooping with a child, through the end of their circus season, but Rebecca expanded on that further. “The kids build not only self confidence in terms of their self esteem, but they build a body awareness and overall body confidence. Confidence in what their bodies can do.” Rebecca explained there are other major benefits that are often overlooked as well. “These are children in development stages of life. The youngest I work with is 5-years-old because, unless they have already been involved in movement activities from an early age (like yoga etc), they are just starting to connect the dots on how to move the hoop around the waist. As they progress in learning new skills, they develop their fine and gross motor skills and coordination through hoop dance.” Rebecca also noted that through learning choreography in the circus the children are also working on team building and trust. She said, “As the kids are practicing moves for their routine, for example partner weaves, they must learn cooperation and trust in their team members in order to complete the move without injuring each other.”

Julia Hartsell Crews of Hoopdrum in Carrboro, North Carolina, has been teaching children’s classes and camps for nearly nine years. She has experience teaching all levels of children from elementary school through high school students. Julia admits that while there are no case studies, as such, through her own personal experience of talking to multitudes of parents, they all agree that hooping 
opened their child up in areas of self confidence and self esteem, especially at the middle school ages when a child may be going through an awkward phase. Her experience working with middle schoolers dealing with peer issues has allowed her to use hooping as a way to dive into those issues, address them gently and stop things before feelings get hurt. “Hooping gives us the opportunity to change behavior. We move with respect and I let them tell me how we can do that. I facilitate the answers by asking them questions. What do we need to be aware of in this class? What could get hurt in this class? We also change behavior by reframing language. Going from ‘I can’t’ to ‘I will’ – teaching them to open possibilities in their world.” She has also seen hooping become a sanctuary for a 9-year-old girl watching her parents go through a divorce, as well as a source of empowerment for an autistic girl who after hooping with her for two years developed the confidence to perform in a talent show. It’s also an ever growing source of inspiration and responsibility for Pete Morello, now 14-years-old, who has been hooping with Julia since he was 7. He’s now taking performance gigs.

The combined years of experience of these three women and the children touched by hooping through their efforts, are evidence to the positive effect the hoop can have in the lives of our kids. Obviously physical fitness in a time when childhood obesity is a considered a crisis in our country is one major draw to hooping, but increased self esteem, body awareness, improvement of fine and gross motor skills, team building, peer relations, better concentration, and a sense of responsibility are just more reasons to get your kid inside the circle. So if you’ve been wondering if hooping is really stimulating your child’s growth… the answer is a resounding YES!

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Re-Entry after a Hoop Gathering.

photo by BELLAWILLOW

When I walked into Louisville’s historic Turners Gym, the site for most of the second annual Snow Flow Festival in Louisville, Kentucky, I took a deep, cleansing breath, knowing I was home for the weekend. The fact that I had been in this magical place before, mattered not. I was once again transformed into a calm place of hoop/flow solitude, without even picking up my hoop. This past weekend, February 3rd - 5th, formally kick started the U.S. hoop gathering season for another year and I was excited.

Orchestrated by Rebecca Hellemans, I glanced around at the professional equipment we were were so blessed to have this year thanks to Tour Support Services. Booming sound, lasers flashing, lights of all colors radiating across the room, smoke steaming up, my heart thumped just thinking of what was to come.

The ceiling was covered with aerial rigs of all kinds, many that would be used for classes over the weekend, including my first lyra class - oh how I fell in love with the aerial hoop! The gym was separated into sections so up to four classes could happen at one time. Hoop, poi, fire eating... well you name it, Snow Flow probably had it. 35 classes, 20 instructors and over 130 participants spun it up this year. Ten of the classes were dedicated solely to hooping, while others could definitely enhance your hoop practice. Fire safety, belly dance, the list goes on and the connectedness between participants that occurs in an intense setting of learning, physical exertion, and emotional opening left me in a state of bliss, and exhaustion by the time the weekend was over.

Rebecca Hellemans spins fire.
photo by Kurt Strecker

After teaching my last class on Sunday, I rushed out of the gym saying quick goodbyes, not lingering too long on the ache that was sure to follow in order to start my six-hour car ride home. My heart was full, my body was sore, and my mind was overflowing with ideas and thoughts to process. I began my journey home realizing this is the part of hoop/flow gatherings that no one really tells you about. THE AFTERMATH. Does this sound at all familiar? The days, sometimes weeks, after a gathering of this intensity, can involve a processing period and a downshift back into “the real world”. A world that is not all hoopers, spinners, and full of a genuine spirit of community. Here are some tips that can help you re-enter your world and be gentle with yourself.

1. Allow time to process. Through journaling, hooping, meditation, or just plain old time in solitude, take the time you need to process. How do you know if it is helping? You feel better after, not worse. Or it may be time spent processing with others. Talk with other hoopers or spinners who attended the event as well. Share your experiences.

2. Pick up your hoop. You’ve surely learned a lot over the course of the event you’ve attended. Pick up the hoop and practice what you have learned. Don’t let all that knowledge go to waste. If you aren’t feeling it, then just love on your hoop and fall into a nice flow, allowing your hoop to embrace you as you bring back those feelings of joy created.

3. Drink Plenty of Water. Hydration is key to life. Your body is most likely exhausted. One of the best ways to nurture yourself is to drink water, and a lot of it. Even if you stayed well hydrated throughout the event, continue this hydration after as your muscles and body continue the healing process. Your body will thank you for it.

4. Get Plenty of Rest. Go to bed earlier than usual if possible. Your body is your temple, allow it to be healthy, rested and restored. You have most likely put more physical and emotional (yes even positive emotion) stress on it than it has seen in awhile. Give yourself an extra hour of sleep or whatever you can squeeze in. Again, remember your body needs time to rebuild and restore itself, physically and emotionally.

5. Stay connected. Most of us are on Facebook and Hooping.org. Stay connected with the new friends you made. Take time to watch the videos from the weekend, look at the pictures posted, and bask in the memories created. It helps to ease the transition back into your daily life.

6. Plan your next event. Knowing that you have something else up your sleeve, even if is months away, can help take the edge off. It doesn’t have to be a full blown hoop gathering either, perhaps it is just a road trip to meet a new friend that you connected with at this past event, or a trip to a city an hour away to learn from that teacher you’ve been hearing about. If you are able to dream up something big or small it can help give you some excitement for the future.

Leaving an event such as Snow Flow can be a big transition and self care afterwards is warranted and necessary. These are just a few guidelines to help and we would love to hear comments and ideas that have worked for you in your transitions from hoop gatherings back to everyday life. I was thrilled to participate at Snow Flow in multiple roles this year including organizational, workshop instructor, performer, and of course attendee. It was an experience to be able to witness the event from so many aspects and still walk away with my mind absolutely blown.

Video edited and created by Jessie Eckles, Snow Flow Instructor and Participant.  If you are receiving this via email and can not view the video, please visit www.havenhoopdance.com

My Hooping Attachments

"Renunciation is not getting rid of the things of this world, but accepting that they pass away."
~~Aitken Roshi



Do you have a hoop that you are particularly attached to? Or perhaps a spinning skirt, shirt or out of this world pair of pants that make you feel hooptastic when you're in your flow? While these “things” to others may seem inconsequential, as we gaze upon them we are flooded with images and emotions that are assuredly powerful. My Buddhist nature tells me to let go of attachments, yet I still find myself holding on to a few certain hoop items which produce deep nostalgia.

My hoops themselves often hold energy having moved me through life experiences and transitions. I may use a particular hoop for years or just months. It depends on my station in life, the hoop size, the type of hoop I am using at the time, what my body needed. Changing a hoop is often as easy as changing the tape, letting go of past energy and bringing in the new spirit. To share a secret though, I, personally, am not one to hold too tightly to a hoop (except the one I am currently using). So what, you may ask, are my hooping attachments? Well, until a few days ago I’m not sure I could of answered that question. And then "it" happened.

I was teaching at the yoga studio where I hold my classes. It was a full class of bright-eyed, spunky children and a couple of moms. I left reveling in the uncomplicated, innocent joy created there. I loaded the hoops in my station wagon, my bag of supplies, and all other necessary items I had carried with me. As I drove away from the studio, I reached for my water bottle and swore out loud when I realized I had forgotten it. I immediately turned the car around.

Back at the studio, one of the owners, Dan, helped me look around the few places I possibly could have left it. I started to feel a strange sensation in my chest that I quickly pushed away. "Umm, Bonnie it’s just a water bottle," I tried telling myself. I told Dan it must be in the parking lot or I missed it in my car somehow. We began looking for it outside, my heart slowly sinking. It wasn’t in my car or anywhere near where I had parked. Getting in the car to drive away, that's when I saw it, on the ground, near the stop sign. Excitement filled me until I picked it up. The aluminum had been crushed. It had obviously run over by a car, probably mine, after being left on top of the wagon while I loaded the hoops. Unexpected tears began to brim.

What? Was I was actually crying because my water bottle was destroyed? I mean I know I’m emotional and all, but this was just a water bottle. Or was it? I looked at it again and stared at the two stickers on it, both HoopPath stickers...old school HoopPath stickers they don't make anymore. My eyes welled up more. Memories flooded my heart and mind. This water bottle had traveled with me everywhere for years, even more than my hoops did. I took it to every Monday night Maidan hoop class in Carrboro, to every hooping event I'd ever attended. I nursed my babies with this bottle by my side. When I traveled anywhere, I brought my water bottle. Even on planes I would go through the hassle of emptying it and packing it for that constant reassurance. I'd even brought it on dates (ok weird I know). It was like an aluminum snuggly blanket full of life giving water that nourished me and reminded me, through the stickers, of my tribe, and of three vital stages of life learning “Belief, Strength, Grace”. Now, it was mush. I couldn’t believe I had to throw it away.

Metaphors being as they are, I've since recognized that it was the right time. I moved from Carrboro to Detroit nine months ago, and this was the perfect moment to physically let go of what I’ve been holding onto so tightly. All of those memories, people, love, they'll always be a part of me, even without my security water bottle. As I search for a new water bottle, I’m excited to put a Detroit Fire Guild sticker along side a HoopPath sticker I have packed away. I am fully embracing my journey where ever it is taking me. Most likely with my water bottle, for me a sign of the life water gives, always by my side. We may develop our hooping attachments, but they come and go right on schedule.

Glorious Muscle Memory

This week, just as Hooping.org’s 30/30 Challenge was kicking off, I took my four- and six-year-old ice skating for the second time in their lives. I, myself, have not skated in over 20 years and was surprised to find how quickly I picked it back up. While my immediate thoughts turned towards hooping (“Wow, wouldn’t it be fun to do today’s 30/30 on ice skates”), I also was surprised at how naturally my body fell back into rhythm with the feel of the ice, skates on my feet, and mixing the two together. Initially, I gave this only a moment of thought as I returned my focus to the task at hand; teaching the boys some basic skating skills.

Have you ever wondered how your body changes from struggling to keep the hoop up, or fighting to learn a new move, to then doing it effortlessly? Yes, practice, practice, practice is essential. But why is it that when we first start hooping we have to hoop with fierce intensity to maintain the hoop’s rhythm, but as time goes on we are able to slow down, almost to where our body appears to barely be moving to keep the rotation afloat? Simply put, it is muscle memory.

Muscle memory is a glorious method of learning where our muscles, simply by repetition, are able to move more fluidly and fluently. Continuous repetition of an action allows our bodies to then perform the action nearly effortlessly. In hooping, by practicing a move or trick frequently, our long term muscle memory takes over and soon we are able to execute the task, often without thinking. Just think of the saying, “You never forget how to ride a bike.” It’s all about muscle memory!

Back at the skating rink, while I was teaching the boys the basics, and watching them fall repeatedly and then dust themselves off and get back up again with joy, my thoughts, for moments at a time, turned back to hooping again. I love the learning process. I find it absolutely enthralling to watch a student go from fear of picking up the hoop during his/her first class to rocking it in both currents, and perhaps learning a move or two by the time the hour has ended. Surely some people don’t learn as quickly and are maybe only able to hoop for 5 minutes (or 5 revolutions) by the end of the first class, but still progress has been made. Muscle memory is being formed, and this I find oddly fascinating. Seriously, I relish in the magnificence of what memories our bodies hold, and how our muscles retain memory and help us hoop or learn other new skills.

As we continued to skate, I could see the boys falling less, pushing with their feet more, laughing harder, and their muscle memory growing and growing. I took notice that not once during this learning process, through all the falls and bumps on the ice, did either one of them EVER say , “Mama, I just can’t do this.” I began to reflect on my own erudition with hooping and how many times, even just in passing, I said “Oh I can’t do that, yet…” What powerful words, “I can’t”. Even just the subtlety of the words “I’ll try” vs. “I’ll do it.”. After all the brain is a muscle too, to be exercised, to gain muscle memory. What kind of muscle memory had I been giving it?

The 30/30 challenge had begun that day, and I knew the first thing I had told myself was, “Well I can’t commit to this, but I’ll try.” I skated on the ice with my boys, my teachers, and gulped, fully swallowing this knowledge of what I have been doing for so long. I watched them, bliss exploding from their beings as they continued this journey on the ice, the words “I Can’t” never exiting their lips. I took pause and promised myself to be actively mindful of the silent messages I told myself, but also to take care of what I spoke out loud, little ears are listening. And in those moments I started to rework my muscle memory, “I will do the 30/30 Challenge. I can do it!”.